One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who call or write to me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely capsize because of their unrealistic expectations. The light bringer doesn't take people's money and turn it into bad memories! Here are the most common unrealistic expectations that men have. I share them so that if you have them you can work them out before hiring your next companion or another type of woman. [Yes, in today's world one must certainly be clean about the role for which he looks. Hence I stress the difference between a companion and another type of woman.].
If you're looking for a life partner or wife, don't surf sites where companions or even providers of adult services advertise! Albeit a life partnership with a companion or woman in other roles can develop in one in a million cases, it's not realistic to expect that it will happen to you. Plus you'll be wasting time, because you'll be looking in the wrong places.
If you go into a relationship with a companion with the mindset of looking for a life partner, your mindset and outlook will be incompatible. That will bring bad vibes between you and the woman. 99% of companions are in it for the money. You need to be realistic about that. Taking a second perspective will help. If you sold your time or body, would you welcome someone approaching you with the mindset of getting what you sold for nothing?
So you'd normally see her for a few hours and tell her how much you'd like to spend a night with her. But you can't afford the whole night? You'll do better if you keep that fact to yourself. 1. it cheapens your image. Claiming poverty sounds unbelievable from a man who has money for seeing companions. 2. You immediately make yourself sound unrealistic. Actions speak louder than words. And people are consistent in their actions. If you normally see her for a few hours, the likelihood that you'll see her for a night is low. You're not that extreme! So say what you mean. And say what is realistic if you don't want to sound artificial and erode the dynamic in your relationship with her.
Realize that if you pay peanuts, you'll get monkeys - you won't get nice for little or nothing. Cheap is cheap rather than deep for good reasons. Good isn't cheap. Also bear in mind that even if you can afford higher fees, there's equally no guarantee that women who charge them will be nice. The world doesn't work that way. Your best bet is to research, apply intuition, and evaluate whether stretching to x more money will be a welcome investment if your intuition tells you that the woman captures your interest.
usually is that if men have them in one area of life, they also have them in other areas of life. As I said above, people are consistent in their actions. But there is always a solution - if we care to find it. Getting some good coaching is one. And it will also help you in many other areas of life. I am the light bringer as I bring light to the lives of men whose unhappiness makes them pay for what should be free. Hence I'll be happy to help - without stigma and embarrassment for you if you decide to get it!