Why should men see courtesans for celebration? Men who see courtesans usually expect to be intimate with them.  Yet why do 99% of men call for intimacy when they break up with partners, are frustrated, despondent, or angry with a circumstance?

Intimacy should come from celebration, not despondency, desperation, frustration, or even anger with something or someone.  Intimacy should be the most beautiful way in which a man and a woman connect. But 99% of men who call for a courtesan ironically do so not for celebration, but out of loneliness, emptiness, emotional pain, and the other mentioned reasons.

Why is this bad?

Because intimacy is good only when people are happy. When you're despondent, angry, frustrated, or desperate, you'll bring that energy into intimacy. Your intimate partner will respond to that energy and you'll respond to her response... Do you think that intimacy born from bad energy will be good? Exactly the point!

So why do so many men not see this obvious fact?

Because nobody brings this "obvious" fact into their attention.  Women sell sex for gain.  Money rules their worlds - or the worlds of their traffickers, and the women therefore take whoever comes their way for a buck. They don't care about you, what you want, how you feel, or whether their commerce contributes something good to humanity... You're not a human being with feelings to them. You're a cash dispenser. So they'll tell you what you want to hear to hook you to go to them.

But intimacy should be a celebration

...instead of a commercial act in artificial circumstances. Gentlemen, think about it this way: if you have a wife or life partner, you enjoy intimacy with her only when you both are in good mood and happy. And if you don't have a life partner but have been on dates, you'll remember the dates on which you had a strong connection and if intimacy happened, it was good. If someone asked you to tell them about the best intimate experience of your life, you'd tell them about a memory when you were happy with the woman with whom you shared the happy experience. And that is, again, exactly the point!

Another way to think about why to see courtesans for celebration

...is that it's exactly the same with massage. When you go for a massage in a hurry or with trepidation of whether you can trust the masseuse, you won't relax and derive the benefits. When you look forward to the massage because you know that you'll relax and derive the benefits. The massage will be a time when you can let go of all problems, relax, go into a light trance, or even fall asleep. And when you send the energy that you trust the masseuse, she'll pick the energy up and give you even more back. When massage is a celebration, it really is a treat for every man to look forward to. And it really is better than artificial sex with strangers. The man realizes its value, benefits, and feel-good factor. Thus he will happily pay for it. He sees the money as well spent.

But what of a man who calls courtesans when he's angry, frustrated, or worse still, drunk or drugged? Does he really think that he will enjoy intimacy? Every action has at least one consequence. So if that's the case, what energy does such a man set for intimacy? How does he expect the woman to respond? If the woman is motivated only by money, she won't care anyway and the sex will be mechanical and soulless. In that case what's the point in paying for what such unhappy man will only go through the motions - if he even remembers the next day that he did so?

See courtesans for celebration, get coaching for desperation

If you've so far always called courtesans, escorts, callgirls, or adult entertainers for sex out of desperation or for another negative reason, try the opposite approach. Then you'll honour the point of paying for what you don't get every day.

If you use the right tool for a job, you'll do the job well. See courtesans for celebration of life, beauty, human connection, and intimacy if that's what you want. Get coaching for frustrations, dealing with breakups, despondency, desperation, and anger. I can do either and all. Which one do you need?