Most men want to spend their finer moments with intelligent, smart, sophisticated companions with perfect bodies, flawless manners, immaculate presentation, bulletproof discretion, and integrity. But many men wince at  paying for the privilege.  Many of those men argue that paying for companionship is uncomfortable.  Well, how else can these men think about paying for companionship?

For 3 reasons:

They will be paying one way or another

Money that you pay for a companion's time is exactly the same as money that you pay a prostitute for sex or a salesperson for a house or milk. Or money that you would pay for dinners, holidays, gifts, etc. for a lover or girlfriend. As men who hire companionship clearly cannot or do not want lovers or girlfriends, they see value in paying for companionship even if they do not like paying.  Money is energy. Exchanging money for something that you want = exchanging positive energy.  The act of paying shows gratitude, appreciation, that you value what or who you pay for. You support the product, service, or person to stay in the world. Thus you give yourself more of what you want. Hence you make your life better.

When you pay for a product or service, you support the business in evolving and improving. When you pay a  companion, you help her to pay for her necessities so that she can contribute value to your life. It's the same as giving money to charity. The only difference is that if you pay a companion, you know exactly where your money goes, while if you "give" money to a charity, you'll never know where the money will go.

Paying for companionship denotes boundaries

The money that you pay a companion, courtesan, or mistress acts as a clear boundary of your relationship.  Boundaries are necessary. Fences make good neighbours.  Every decent coach advises that people set clear boundaries in every professional and personal relationship.  Most people need a home.  A home has walls, windows, doors which denote clear boundaries.  Why do we lock doors, windows, and cover windows even in buildings with 24-hour security?  Because we want to fortify our boundaries.  We live in apartments because we want to be apart... Many men who wish to spend time with intelligent, smart, sophisticated women have wives or partners.  And so do many of those women.  So money is a critical boundary that clearly denotes the relationship.

Men paying for companionship want independence

If a man dates a companion, courtesan, or mistress, money that he pays her resolves his conflict between maintaining independence and submitting to their relationship. Of course, points 1 and 2 apply here too. And they also beautifully complement each other.

A different perspective on the act of paying makes all the difference

So you see? Paying for companionship does not have to be all that negative if you view it from a more resourceful perspective. This also applies to other currently intimidating or pressing aspects of your life. If you'd like to make them friendlier, you can do it with me.